Coaching
“Guided by Truth, Held in Presence”
Come Home to Yourself & Each Other
I offer personalised, in-depth guidance for men, women, couples, and all gender identities and orientations – available online or in my private practice rooms in Offenburg and Strasbourg.
Together, we can work to overcome shyness, nurture self-love, and develop greater confidence, awareness and structure in dating and relationships. I can also help you explore Taoist and Tantric wisdom to enhance your sexual prowess and boost or restore your sexual vitality.
For couples, I provide a safe and respectful space in which to resolve recurring patterns, strengthen intimacy, and reconnect in an authentic and nourishing way. If you want to break free from self-limiting beliefs, heal past emotional wounds, or become a more empowered and conscious lover and partner, I invite you to transform your love life at its roots.
My Expertise & Approach
My journey has been shaped by an in-depth exploration of a diverse range of holistic practices and systems. These include:
Bioenergetik • Entheogenic Integration • Family Constellations • Holotropic Breathwork • Karsai Nei Tsang • Somatic Kinesiology • Qigong • Tantric & Neotantric Philosophy • Taoist Sexology • Yoga
I am dedicated to using this wealth of experience to guide you towards a deeper, more holistic understanding of your sexuality and relationships. My aim is to help you find clarity, fulfilment and the courage to create conscious, nourishing connections in these vital facets of life.
Can You Relate?
಄ Your love life feels one-sided and characterized by unfulfilling routines
಄ You feel disconnected from your body or struggle with low self-esteem
಄ Shyness or fear makes it difficult to meet new people or deepen relationships
಄ Fears, emotional blockages or sexual dysfunction hinder your pleasure and intimacy
಄ You’ve been single for a long time and long for genuine love and connection
಄ Your relationships repeat toxic patterns like jealousy, manipulation or dependency
಄ As a couple, you want to rekindle closeness, heal old wounds and build trust
My Approach
The foundation for building a fulfilling love life is the cultivation of self-love. By embracing and embodying self-love, we can significantly increase our self confidence and charisma. Over time, this transformation makes us naturally more secure in social interactions and more attractive to those around us – not through masks or tactics, but through genuine presence.
I offer to help you reconnect with your body, mind and emotions. You will discover techniques, exercises and holistic principles deeply rooted in Taoist and Tantric philosophy. My approach emphasises cultivating self-love, optimising mental patterns and daily routines, embracing unintentional intimacy, shadow work, mastering the arousal curve, practising conscious self-touch, genital yoga, and breath, voice and energy work.
By integrating these concepts into your life, you broaden your horizons and strengthen your system holistically. This will enable you to experience love and sexuality in a more conscious, fulfilling, and deeply nourishing way – both within yourself and with your partner(s).
“Healthy intimacy is not asking someone to complete you, but inviting them to walk beside you in the wholeness you’ve claimed”
This Can Be Your Reality
಄ Meeting new people comes naturally to you. You approach strangers and groups of people with confidence and ease
಄ You experience a rich, multi-faceted love life with the partner(s) of your choice
಄ You feel comfortable and attractive in your own skin
಄ You embrace your desires and fantasies without guilt or shame – and learn how to fulfill them consciously and responsibly
಄ You build your relationships based on mutual self-love. If both partners love themselves, nobody has to carry the other. This is fundamental in creating balanced and healthy partnerships
಄ You can make love for as long as you and your partner(s) desire. You are free from physical and mental limitations
A Holistic Perspective
When making major life changes or pursuing deep transformation, it’s essential to take a holistic perspective.
Our thoughts shape our emotions, and our emotions influence the energetic frequency at which we vibrate. This frequency profoundly affects our physical health, mental clarity, daily habits, the people and experiences we attract and ultimately, the reality we live in.
I will guide you through a personalised, step-by-step journey to reprogram your mind, refine your habits and shift your patterns, empowering you to transform your life in a significant and lasting way.
© 2025 Philipp S. Mutschler
Roadmap & Milestones
While every client’s journey is unique, this roadmap offers a general illustration of the path we might take together
I. Honest Assessment
Before we can create change, we need clarity. We begin with an honest and compassionate examination of where you stand in life, in terms of your relationship with yourself and, if relevant, your partner(s). Together, we’ll identify the areas in which you feel stuck, unfulfilled or hurt, and we’ll uncover the deeper desires and wounds that require attention.
As I often remind my clients:
“Change may be scary and painful, but nothing is more painful than staying stuck where you don’t want to be”
This first step lays the foundation for everything that follows, it’s where transformation begins.
II. Examin Habits & Patterns
The habits and routines we follow play a crucial role in determining whether or not we can achieve our goals.
Sustainable change requires more than motivation and good intentions; it requires, first and foremost, consistent focus and dedicated effort.
In this step, we’ll take a detailed look at your daily patterns and routines to determine which are limiting your progress and which are actively supporting your growth.
By refining and optimising these habits, you will begin to align your focus and actions with the life you really want to live.
III. Clear Goals & New Routines
Next, we translate your deeper longings into clear, achievable goals. We craft a personalised program to reach them step by step: daily practices, nourishing routines, mindful rituals and practical actions that keep you connected to your intentions.
This phase is about more than just planning; it’s about turning intention into rhythm and rhythm into transformation.
The program is build around the well-established ‘SMART’ approach (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, Time-bound), which is very effective in guiding you towards achieving your goals and establishing stable, long-lasting habits in your life.
IV. Holistic Study & Practice
At the heart of our work together is the exploration and internalisation of holistic concepts rooted in Taoist Sexology, Bioenergetik, and Neotantra.
You’ll learn and practice proven exercises, techniques and routines designed to strengthen your mind, body, sexual organs and energy flow.
This study will greatly expand your horizons in the areas of personal growth, sexuality, relationship building and relationship management.
It will also enable you to develop a positive, healthy relationship with your body, which will increase your self-confidence and make it easier for you to engage with others and meet new people.
V. Integration in Real Life
Knowledge becomes transformation when it’s embodied.
Together, we’ll apply what you’ve learned to real-life situations. From how you communicate, relate, and navigate intimacy, to how you show up in moments of challenge and vulnerability.
We’ll check in regularly to track your progress, reflect on emotional patterns and overcome any obstacles that arise.
You will embody strategies for managing pressure, handling rejection with grace, communicating your needs clearly and remaining grounded in your truth, even when life tests your boundaries.
Over time, your inner evolution will begin to have a positive and lasting impact on your reality.
VI. Cultivation of self-love
Through lived integrity, we transform your optimised routines into stable habits. This will gradually lead you to a highly empowered state of being where your health, vitality, lifestyle and aesthetics align with your desires. The state of self-love.
When we are in love with who we are, we will no longer require external love to feel good about ourselves, as we already supply us with 100% of the love we need. This enables us to build healthy relationships based on a balance of giving and receiving.
When we are comfortable in our own skin and happy with our lives, our energetic vibration communicates to others that we are in harmony with ourselves, which makes us charismatic and attractive to the outside world.
“Our energy and presence speaks louder than our words or appearance ever could.”
“Each moment asks us to choose: stay bound by fear’s old echoes, or trust love to lead us somewhere wider and more alive“
Words From My Clients
Benjamin K.
As someone who suffered from sexual performance anxiety for a long time, I constantly felt like I wasn’t good enough in my intimate relationships.
I could never really relax and enjoy the moment because I was always worried about whether or not I would be able to satisfy my partner. I was very dissatisfied with my sex life and didn’t know how to deal with these negative feelings…
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Philipp listened to my worries and helped me realise that intimacy is about much more than just giving someone an orgasm. He made me realise that it is above all about consciously sharing love, energy and pleasure with each other. This realisation changed my thinking a lot and helped me to understand sex in a much bigger context.
Through Philipp’s guidance I learned how to pay attention to my body, how to understand it better and how important it is to calm my thoughts. I learned how to be attentive to my partner’s needs and desires without putting pressure on myself. He taught me a variety of techniques and exercises to help me become a more confident and capable lover. Philipp recommended some inspiring books on the subject which helped me to further deepen my knowledge.
I have reached a point in my life where I can enjoy a more complex and fulfilling sex life. I feel much more confident and as a result I’m able to relax and enjoy the moments I share with my partners. I can’t thank Philipp enough for his advice and support and I look forward to continuing our work together in 2023.”
Darleen K.
“I’d struggled with orgasm problems for years. It was incredibly frustrating and isolating and had a negative impact on my relationships. On the recommendation of a friend, I attended one of Philipp’s workshops while travelling in Chiang Mai and it was a complete game changer for me.
Phil’s approach was so different to anything I had tried before…
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He created a safe and trusting space and his kindness and understanding immediately made me feel at ease and able to let go.
The workshop itself was informative and educational, but what struck me most was the personalised Karsai massage. It helped me release so much accumulated tension, pain and trauma in my body that I didn’t even know was there.
It was an emotional and physical release that I will never forget. To be honest, I never thought I would ever be able to have a normal and fulfilling love life again. But thanks to Philipp’s guidance and introduction to Karsai massage, I am experiencing sexual pleasure in a way that fulfils me and makes me feel connected to my body again.”
Sarah F.
“Due to a new job, my partner travels abroad for about 150 days a year. These long periods of absence made it very difficult for me to feel emotionally connected to my partner and I also felt that our intimacy was suffering.
Phil is incredibly patient, understanding and compassionate. He took the time to understand my particular situation and gave me practical advice…
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He took the time to understand my particular situation and gave me practical advice. He taught me the importance of open communication, creativity and lived intimacy to maintain passion and trust in a long-distance relationship. He also showed us how to use technology in fun, playful ways to share intimacy across distance.
I am now able to communicate my needs and concerns more openly and honestly with my partner, and we actually take great pleasure in exploring new forms of intimacy with each other, even though we are thousands of kilometres apart.
I can’t thank Phil enough for his help and advice. He has given us the right tools to maintain our passion, no matter how great the distance between us.”
Let’s Connect
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