The Fine Art of Yoni Stimulation

Flower of Pleasure That Needs Time to Fully Blossom

Very often, men initiate intimate exchange by directly stimulating the glans of the clitoris or by inserting a finger into the vagina and making fast, hard movements. For most women, this approach is far from pleasurable. The human body is not a machine where you can just push a ‘button’ to generate pleasure.

It’s very important to activate the Yoni gently and gradually. In Taoist scriptures, it’s often compared to a flower of pleasure that needs its time to fully blossom.

I like to start by gently, sliding my hand down the pelvis until I approach the sides of the outer labia, caressing and massaging the three pressure points located in this area. I also love forming a V with my fingers and massage both sides of the labia at the same time, occasionally letting one of my fingers run slowly over the centre of the vulva.

Art Ⓒ 2024 Philipp Mutschler

Gentle & Steady Movements Are Key

When it comes to the glans of the clitoris, gentle and steady movements are key, especially in the beginning. Before touching the glans, I work my way down from the mons pubis in slow, even pressured circles right to the area before the clitoral glans, where I continue the circling and massaging. These circular motions will move the clitoral hood, providing wonderful indirect stimulation.

The area below the clitoral glans is also ideal for alternating the stimulation you give your partner. Just between the clitoral glans and the urethra is a spot where you can touch the clitoral body through the skin. It’s tube shaped and runs from the glans inwards to the body. Gently massaging or even stroking it with the tips of your fingers can be very pleasurable.

Vary Impulses Slightly Every 2-3 Minutes

When stimulating the glans directly, it is important to vary the stimulation. As a rule of thumb, I’ve found it beneficial to change your movements slightly every ~2-3 minutes. This area is prone to getting used to a certain type of stimulation quickly. The change does not need to be significant, just a slight adjustment in rhythm, pressure or angle is usually enough to keep the nerves firing.

As always, listen carefully to your partner’s energetic, physical and auditory feedback. It will guide you in your quest for ecstasy.

© Philipp, 03 April 2024