Self-Love Rituals

Embrace Physically Expressed Self-Love

Many people seek sexual fulfilment externally, which can be a source of distress and pressure. I often encourage clients facing such challenges to turn their focus inwards and embrace physically expressed self-love.

I’m not referring to the common 5-minute wank before bed, which can actually be a toxic habit that drains sexual energy. Instead, I’m advocating for consciously taking the time to make love to your own body for at least 40 to 60 minutes. Ideally, I recommend practicing ‘self-love rituals’ 2-3 times a week. The benefits of establishing such a habit are significant.

Gradual Activation of Sexual Pleasure Centres

Conscious masturbation helps men get to know their arousal curve, which is very important for controlling the point of ejaculation and thus lasting longer in bed. But this is just the surface. The most profound aspect, in my view, is that by regularly masturbating your body, ideally in the context of advanced sexual knowledge, you will gradually activate your primary ‘sexual pleasure centres’.

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Activated Pleasure Centres Enable Us to Orgasm in Each of Them Individually

These are the penis, testicles and prostate in men and the clitoris, G-spot and cervix in women. An activated pleasure centre is much more receptive to stimulation, allowing us to experience much deeper levels of pleasure and ecstasy. The truly miraculous aspect, however, is that fully activated pleasure centres enable us to orgasm in each of them individually. Each centre providing a unique orgasmic experience.

Self-Love Radiates Outwards and Creates Charisma

The benefits of self-love rituals extend far beyond physical pleasure. Regular practice will create an emotional/energetic shift. When we seek sexual satisfaction externally, we are often operating from a place of lack, which can create a frequency of need. According to the law of resonance, ‘like attracts like’ – so if we’re in a state of longing, we will attract others who are similarly unfulfilled.

Conversely, when we practice self-love and fulfil our own needs, we raise your energetic frequency and radiate confidence, contentment and love. This shift naturally attracts others who are also whole and self-sufficient, laying the foundation for authentic, deep and stable relationships.

© Philipp, 09 July 2024